The
question, “what can I give life and the world today,” embodies our sense of
purpose to give meaning to our life and the people around us. Our lives begin
to have a meaning when we have a burning desire to make a positive difference
in the world around us.
How do we
define our life’s purpose? How can we create more meaningful connections with
others? Harold Kushner remarked, “The
purpose of life is to grow and to share. When you come to look back on all that
you have done in life, you will get more satisfaction from the pleasure you
have brought into other people's lives than you will from the times that you
outdid and defeated them. “
To develop our sense of purpose in
making a positive difference in our world; let’s practice the four habits of
purpose:
Be kinder than anticipated
We
sometimes take things and people for granted. The way to make a positive
difference in people’s lives is to begin with a mind-set that we are here to be
kind to each other. Rabbi Sholmo Wolbe
said, “The first step to becoming a kind person is to be aware of the specific
needs of each person you encounter.” Sometimes people won’t tell you what
they need, but you can reach out and help someone by offering something the
person is missing in their life. Kindness can uplift, encourage and influence
others for a better situation.
Deliver more than needed
Talking
about our purpose is not enough. We have to “deliver the goods.” Are we doing
more than expected? Are going the extra mile to give your life a better
meaning? We have to be action-oriented if we want to see our life taking a new
turn. I was always told there are two kinds of people among us: those who make
things happen, and those who wait for things to happen. Deliver the promise!
Inspire and develop others
We need to
make a commitment to inspire and develop others. We live to our fullest when we
develop the people in our communities we belong to.
The highest
call of leadership is taking people where they are at the moment to where they
can be tomorrow. Alan
Loy McGinnis said, “There is no more
noble occupation in the world than to assist another human being-to help
someone succeed.” By investing in our future, we dedicate to the growth of
the people around us. We care about their hopes and dreams.
Learn more than you have in the past
Learning
allows us to pause and reflect. By
earning, we find ways to explore and discover new things. We are never at a
point of arrival, but always on the journey to become a better person. Leaders
understand that they need to take the time for personal development to continue
to grow. Our effectiveness is determined
by our willingness to open our mind to new ways of doing things. Every day,
someone discovers another way of doing something. It could be faster or better.
In a world of information flow, we constantly have to keep up with the latest
discoveries. Mortimer Adler said,” The
purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue
growing as we continue to live.”
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